The Teen Sleep Dilemma: How Much is Enough?

Sleep. That thing we all want, but never seem to get enough of—especially if you're a mom with teenagers. If your teen's sleep schedule resembles that of a nocturnal owl more than a human, you're not alone. It is the same at our house! Let's talk about how much sleep our teens really need and how to help them get it!

Healthy Sleep Habits for Teens

According to the National Sleep Foundation, teenagers should aim for 8-10 hours of sleep per night. Sounds simple, right? Hah! If only. Between school and sports and technology, they are not getting that. At least at our house!

Why Do Teens Need More Sleep?

Remember those days when your baby slept 16 hours a day? Well, teens aren't that different. Their bodies are growing, their brains are developing, and that all takes energy. And guess what? Energy is replenished through sleep. Thus, the 8-10 hour recommendation.
But here's the kicker—thanks to their circadian rhythms, teens are naturally inclined to stay up later and wake up later. Schools, however, haven't quite caught on to this yet. Which is why my teen is always tired and wanting coffee in the morning!

The Impact of Sleep Deprivation

We all know sleep deprivation turns our teens into grumpy, moody, and forgetful people. But it gets worse. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to a host of issues like:
  • Poor academic performance
  • Increased risk of mental health issues (think anxiety and depression)
  • Weakened immune system (more sick days, yay!)
  • Risky behaviors (like texting while driving)
In other words, lack of sleep isn’t just a pain for you; it's messing with your teens too.

Encouraging Better Sleep

Let's get to the good stuff—how to encourage healthier sleep habits.

Create a Sleep-Friendly Environment

Think of your teens’ room as a sleep sanctuary. Here are some tips to get started:

  • Limit Screen Time: Blue light from phones, tablets, and TVs can mess with melatonin production. Encourage your teen to ditch the devices at least an hour before bed. Easier said than done, I know.
  • Keep It Cool: A cooler room (around 65°F) helps induce sleep.
  • White Noise: If your house is as noisy as Grand Central Station, consider a white noise machine to drown out the chaos.
Set a Consistent Sleep Schedule

Consistency is key. Encourage your teen to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day—even on weekends.  Yes, weekends too. Do the best you can. Trust me. I know it is hard!

Encourage Relaxation Techniques

Help your teen wind down with some relaxation techniques. Here are a few ideas:

  • Reading: An actual book, not an e-book. Remember those?
  • Warm Bath: A warm soak can relax muscles and signal to the body it's time to sleep.
  • Meditation or Deep Breathing: There are plenty of apps designed to guide users through relaxation techniques. Youtube is super useful for that!
 
Lead by Example
Show your teen that you value sleep by practicing healthy sleep habits yourself. Because, let's face it, when was the last time you got 8 hours of sleep? No judgement here – I am a work in progress with sleep!

Conclusion

The teen sleep dilemma might feel like a never-ending battle, but with a little bit of patience, a little bit of strong arming and showing them you are trying too, you'll get through it. Encourage healthy sleep habits, create a sleep-friendly environment, and lead by example. Before you know it, your teen might actually get those 8-10 hours of sleep—and so might you.

If you need more personalized advice, don't hesitate to reach out—we're all in this together.

Happy sleeping, moms!

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